yù / dào / cuò / zhé / shí / yǔ / qí / gù / yǐng / zì / lián / bù / rú / xiǎng / bàn / fǎ / jiě / jué / wèn / tí遇到挫折时,与其顾影自怜,不如想办法解决问题。When facing setbacks, instead of feeling sorry for yourself, it is better to find a way to solve the problem.