yù / dào / fēn / qí / shí / wǒ / men / yīng / gāi / xiān / wǎn / shāng / ér / bú / shì / lì / kè / zhēng / chǎo遇到分歧时,我们应该先婉商,而不是立刻争吵。When disagreements arise, we should discuss them tactfully instead of arguing immediately.