zhè zhǒng / guān jiàn / shí kè / nǐ / bié / dāng / jiǎo shǐ gùn / xiān / tīng ting / shuāng fāng / zěn me / shuō这种关键时刻,你别当搅屎棍,先听听双方怎么说。At a critical moment like this, don't stir up trouble; listen to both sides first.