rú guǒ néng jiāng xīn bǐ xīn / nǐ huì fā xiàn hěn duō shì qí shí kě yǐ lǐ jiě如果能将心比心,你会发现很多事情其实可以理解。If you can put yourself in others' shoes, you'll find many things are actually understandable.