chǔ / lǐ / zhè / jiàn / shì / bù / néng / xiān / bīng / hòu / lǐ / hái / shi / yīng / gāi / xiān / zuò / xià / lái / tán / pàn

处理这件事不能先兵后礼，还是应该先坐下来谈判。

This matter should not be handled with force before courtesy; the parties should sit down and negotiate first.