Yí / gè / rén / yīnggāi / kào / zìjǐ / de / nénglì / shēnghuó / bú / yào / bèi / rén / shuō / chéng / chīruǎnfàn一个人应该靠自己的能力生活,不要被人说成吃软饭。A person should live by their own abilities rather than be accused of living off someone else.