zhè / ge / chēng / hu / bǐ / jiào / gǔ / yǎ / xiàn / dài / rì / cháng / huì / huà / zhōng / hěn / shǎo / shǐ / yòng / lìng / kǔn

这个称呼比较古雅，现代日常会话中很少使用“令阃”。

This form of address is rather classical, and 令阃 is rarely used in modern everyday conversation.