zhēn / zhèng / de / kè / jǐ / shì / kòng / zhì / yù / wàng / ér / bú / shì / yí / wèi / yā / yì / zì / jǐ真正的克己是控制欲望,而不是一味压抑自己。True self-restraint means controlling one's desires rather than simply suppressing oneself.