nǐ / xiàn / zài / pī / píng / tā / zhǐ / huì / huǒ / shàng / jiā / yóu / , / zuì / hǎo / xiān / ràng / tā / lěng / jìng / xià / lái / 。你现在批评他只会火上加油,最好先让他冷静下来。Criticizing him now will only aggravate the situation, so it is better to let him calm down first.