zài / gǔ / dài / hūn / pèi / wǎng / wǎng / yóu / fù / mǔ / zhī / mìng / méi / shuò / zhī / yán / jué / dìng在古代,婚配往往由父母之命、媒妁之言决定。In ancient times, marriage was often decided by the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers.