háizi men / jiéhūn / hòu / wǒ / cháng / hé / qìng jia mǔ / shāngliang / jiérì / jùcān / de / ānpái孩子们结婚后,我常和亲家母商量节日聚餐的安排。After our children got married, I often discussed holiday meal arrangements with the other mother.