yù dào / fēn qí / shí / yǔ qí / hù xiāng / zhǐ zé / bù rú / zuò xià lái / hǎo hāo / shuō lǐ

遇到分歧时，与其互相指责，不如坐下来好好说理。

When disagreements arise, it is better to sit down and reason things out than to blame each other.