yǔ qí gēn lǎo bǎn duì kàng bù rú xiān bǎ zì jǐ de xiǎng fǎ zhěng lǐ qīng chǔ zài hǎo hǎo tán

与其跟老板对抗，不如先把自己的想法整理清楚再好好谈。

Instead of confronting your boss, it's better to organize your thoughts clearly and then have a proper talk.