tā zhè liǎng nián zuì dà de jìnbù jiùshì bùzài nàme zìwǒ, kāishǐ tīng de jìn biérén de yìjiàn le

她这两年最大的进步就是不再那么自我，开始听得进别人的意见了。

Her biggest progress in the last two years is becoming less self-absorbed and starting to listen to others' opinions.