tiáojiě búshì pàn shéi yíng, érshì ràng shuāngfāng bǎ shìshí shuō qīngchu, zhǎo yí gè néng zhíxíng de bànfǎ

调解不是判谁赢，而是让双方把事实说清楚，找一个能执行的办法。

Mediation is not about deciding who wins, but about letting both sides clarify the facts and finding a workable solution.