biǎogé lǐ de 'guānxì' bú shì wèn nǐmen gǎnqíng hǎo bù hǎo, ér shì wèn shēnfèn guānxì

表格里的“关系”不是问你们感情好不好，而是问身份关系。

The 'relationship' on the form is not asking about your emotional connection, but about your familial or official relationship.