nǐ / bù / néng / zǒng / shì / ná / jiā / rén / dāng / dǎng / jiàn / pái / táo / bì / zì / jǐ / de / zé / rèn

你不能总是拿家人当挡箭牌，逃避自己的责任。

You can't always use your family as a shield to avoid your own responsibilities.