miàn duì / hái zi / de / nì fǎn / xīn lǐ / jiā zhǎng / yīng / shùn dǎo / ér / bù shì / yā zhì面对孩子的逆反心理,家长应顺导而不是压制。Facing a child's rebellious feelings, parents should guide them gently rather than suppress them.