zhǎngbèi wèn gōngzuò, duìxiang, fángzi, yǒushí shì guānxīn, yǒushí yě huì biànchéng yālì

长辈问工作、对象、房子，有时是关心，有时也会变成压力。

When elders ask about your job, partner, or house, sometimes it is out of care, but other times it can become a source of pressure.