jù cān shí bù hē jiǔ kě yǐ shuō wǒ bù hē jiǔ wǒ yòng chá jìng nǐ聚餐时不喝酒,可以说:“我不喝酒,我用茶敬你。If you don't drink at a group meal, you can say, "I don't drink, I'll toast you with tea"