gěi xiǎohái diǎn cài shí bié zhǐ wèn là bù là yě yào wèn yán táng gǔtou hé wēndù给小孩点菜时,别只问辣不辣,也要问盐、糖、骨头和温度。When ordering for a child, don't just ask if it's spicy; also ask about salt, sugar, bones, and temperature.