yóuqí shì xīn péngyou, kèhù hé zhǎngbèi zàichǎng shí, zhège fēncùn hěn zhòngyào尤其是新朋友、客户和长辈在场时,这个分寸很重要。Especially when new friends, clients, or elders are present, this sense of propriety is very important.