xiǎozǔ tǎolùn lǐ, guāndiǎn bùtóng bù yīdìng shāng rén, yǔqì hěn róngyì shāng rén小组讨论里,观点不同不一定伤人,语气很容易伤人。In group discussions, differing opinions don't necessarily hurt people, but tone of voice very easily can.